Thursday, April 3, 2008

What is the solution of control?



Control is not a matter of just one day or occasion on which you need to be controlled. For being controlled, you need to behave controlled in your every day life with every aspect of the life or over every issue of your daily life.

You may arise a question why dose we need to be controlled in our life. If you want to pass the examination then you need to revise all your exercises many times, such as you need to work hard to control your gestures, postures and emotions as well.

To change the track of your life, you must be slow in your rest works to avoid them gradually. Because rigidity of bad things are so strong and needs to take time to remove them. We often think why bad things come speedy and good things come gradually. But thing is that we have more experienced of bad things than good things to accept in our life. Our mind is psychologically set to accept bad things speedily, but it takes time to accept good things because we think that it is not easy as bad things. To be drunkard and to smoke are not hard but to leave these habits are much much hard. To overcome this psychology we need be controlled.

As we can see that there are two sides of a coin, similarly two sides of our life are bad and good things. Good is what is happening according to as per the convention and bad means not to be happened. Actually all things happen according to conventions only, but our imaginations are different over those issues.

There are some inputs in our life and according to that we get output in our rest life which may be good or bad depends on those input passed by us. To see, to think, to eat, to listen, to feel are our inputs of life and accordingly we get output in our nature and behavior as well. If you see bad things every day and you are happy with those things then definitely bad things will be occurred to you as output of those. If you are eating non-eatables then your health will be spoiled as output. If you are listening bad-words and you are happy with that, once you will also speak bad-words as output.

So the ultimate decision is control is necessary in our daily life issues. Then after you can expect full-controlled life and it can make you unique one among others. You can really feel free from demerits and bugs. If soft rope can make signs on wall by every day activities of in and out, why people can not be as they want to be. Be specific on your virtues and stick to them rigorously for being controlled at all.

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