Saturday, April 26, 2008

Condonation toward condemned



Society needs laws, rules and regulation to conduct the commerce of the Government and people as well. According to these rules and regulation, offenders get appropriate sentence for their offences. At this stage, we cannot consolidate the condonation to any offender, but there are many cases in our daily routine, where we can try to reduce the over all offence level in the society. First thing is who can be condoned and by whom. Condonation is given to one, who is loved by us. Parents always condone to their children and only reason behind this is they love their children. Parents condone to their children before their condemnation. They dream for their child, before its birth. They are mentally prepared to condone to their child, because they want to give all those, which they cannot get. Same concept applies to the relation of Master and disciple. Master condones to his disciple before his offence, because master knows his disciple and his nature as well. He also knows about the condemnation, which might have been done by him. This is how the condonation comes in one’s nature by knowing relevant condemnation in advanced.

When you get to know the possible condemnation of your peers and other people, who affect your status and your are mentally prepared for that in advanced, definitely, you have power to give condonation toward them. Nevertheless, many people cannot condone because of their higher expectation. When you expect more from somebody and if he or she finds to be condemned, you cannot condone them. Steadfast person can condone to others and that is why he has no more expectation to others. Parents love their child and can condone to their child as well, it does not mean they have no expectation, but they never expect things, which cause to their child to be condemned and that is why they can condone to their child. Indian traditional culture also followed the rule of condonation. It is told that condonation is a big weapon of steadfast and calm persons. Whenever you condone others in spite of his/ her condemnation, you can win that person due to your steadfast sense. It is not easy for all to condone others because they have not the prerequisites for having merits of giving condonation. Only reason behind this is access of expectations.